"Oh I forgot!" - How often do we hear this? or the supposedly more honest version, "I was busy and therefore..." Obviously, this is followed by a "hope that's ok" or a genuine "I am sorry", but are u feeling ok or even forgiving? In most cases, we let it slide.."No stress"/"Its ok"/"chill"/"whatever" are some of our standard responses. After all, we do want to be seen as accepting/accommodating/understanding. But deep inside, its either guilt (I also do this sometimes) or deep hurt that are actually behind that smile. No yaar, its not ok! I don't want you to forget to call/message/write/email/feel/breathe...
Ultimately, we need to accept to ourselves that we are not okay with being used, with being "cool", with being forgotten..even if its really/truly/sincerely so...Our egos just cant accept it and maybe we should stop pretending that they can!!
Its okay to be hurt, to be in pain, to cry, to grieve, to react or even retaliate - its part of being human...Face it, however cold, materialistic, machinistic we may think we are, just that thought proves that we are living, breathing, feeling beings!
Robbie Williams wants to feel the living, Savage garden wants to live like animals, and I just want to be aware!:-) and maybe even prod u to explore the "Emotional Quotient" within!;D
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